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What's noteable here is that that the posibility that this relationship is psysically abusive is played down. What this woman is escaping is first of all the excess work and entitlement in this relationship. There are a lot of women who get stuck doing too much work in relationships with men where work should be shared, because certain men don't even realize how much they have grown up taking it for granted that they don't have to do or even learn to do certain things. It's important to ballance female rage here with remembering that kids of both genders can grow up doing this to their parrents with everything typically falling on mothers and that men may have varying degrees of awareness and, when they know the stakes and see that it's possible, many will help, although if the weight of teaching and enforcing accountability for this falls onto female partners, yet again here, that can be an even worse problem and both problems should be a deal-breaker often. I think difficulty communicating needs and sharing work can also lead to guilt ammoung an entire family where one matriarch does too much of the work. Even when people are exhausted, navigating the sharing the power that comes with taking ownership over tasks and the resentment that comes from the skills and work-sharing not always being fast or easy for a new person to take on right -- that makes situations hard, even when the will is there to help. I'm speaking as an adult woman who grew up with my mom doing too much in work and the home while dad overworked at work and I overworked as a perfectionist in school. They later separated and I live with Mom now in her increasingly old age, as her fategue and walking disability worsens, while he lives separately. I feel ashamed for not being a natural enough helper to her or eager enough to do what needs doing, but also generally overstretched and resentful about having no choise in much work that she can't phisically do now and her not being kind about the necessity of me to just do things because nobody else is available to her. The limits on my own freedom in the world have increased as she's been less able to even do the fun things with me. I'm preparing to move out and I need to not be caring for anyone or dealing with serious disability issues in my immediate household circles for a while, but I also feel I've failed her and keep failing her and I feel rotten about it. One can be the problem, even as another woman. I think I'll learn to be a more responcible person when I get out on my own, but we've lost so much of the joy of living together as people who like and love eachother. A related issue here is that the hole family was, for a long time, all individually overworked while living together, out of necessity. It tends to lead people to be either angry or tired and unable to figure out how to sort the power and responcibility issues out carefully,in good faith.

Always loved this song. I thought the beats at the end of the song were very reminiscent of a heartbeat though! So it's interesting to hear other takes <3

My mother had so many relationships with men one of men hurt her when she had me in her stomach and I wasn't born right and this song makes me feel like she telling me about this relationship even though she is gone and this song makes me feel like it's telling the stories of many many women not just mothers

Just found this series of analysing Hozier lyrics and I am so grateful! I love his songs so much but my listening comprehendtion is quite bad and combined with how i never finished what would be the equivalent to high school the academic references can fly over my head. It can all be a little overwhelming to understand some lyrics. I write poetry myself and love his writing but this has really helped me with fully understanding his newest songs that i haven't spent years marinating in my head. I also think that its beautiful how different songs hit us differently my favorite of this newer collection is definitely Swan Upon Leda; a song I somehow understood fully the moment I heard it. Its gentle, lulling despair but hopeful rebellion moved me deeply. Hope you're doing well and your cats are happy❤

I really thought it would be Noah kahan, but this is so much better

OMG... I am a few months away from turning 80, and I know and feel every word. In the US, the far right is trying to return women back to the 17th century.. I hope women wake up, get woke, and vote.

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i adore these prints im so sad im too late to get them :sob:

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Awesome list! I would like to recommend 2 poetry books- Rifqa by Muhammad El Kurd and also Things You May Find Hidden in My Ear by Mosab Abu Toha. They’re both so good and show the heart of the Palestinian people as well as everything they’ve endured for decades.

LETS GO THANK YOU FOR USING YOUR PLATFORM!!!!!

Thank you from the ❤! Some amazing new finds for me and I love it! Free Palestine!

thank you for this, honor! turning off adblock to watch

Nemahsis is an awesome Palestinian-Canadian pop singer! Her song “stick of gum” is soo catchy

Thank you for sharing these artists! They were all amazing.

THANK YOU FOR THIS!!! <3 FREE PALESTINE!!!

Thank you for this video truely !! And about Nai Barghouti i saw her live and her and her band are some of the truest artists i've seen i recommend not missing her show if she ever is in your city free palestine <3

Appreciate you doing this. Thanks for the recommendations 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

Thanks for this and for making the playlist ❤❤

47SOUL and BASHARRRRRRR YASSSS also NEMAHSIS is a brilliant artist.

LETS GOOOO FREE PALESTINE HOMIES LETS GOOOOOO

Thanks for highlighting these artists can't wait to check their stuff out. I have a huge soft spot for Bashar Murad since he wanted to go to Eurovision this year representing Iceland but what could've been a beautiful moment of icelandic people showing our solidarity with the palestinian cause was ultimately squashed because many conservatives who usually never even vote in stuff like this got another act to win which landed us in last place in the competition as a whole. It was just such a disappointment and it felt disgusting because most of us didn't even want Iceland to be a part of Eurovision this year because of Israel's participation, but the broadcaster RÚV put it on the winner to decide whether to go or not (which is a shit move in and of itself) so this was our biggest chance as icelandic citizens to put our foot down in support of Palestine but I guess we just had to be racist. Thanks again for the great recommendations.

Thank you Honor I couldn't agree more. Call, write, boycott, protest you do what you can because every bit counts with so many turning a blind eye. Permanent cease fire!! Free Palestine!! Stop the genocide!!🤲🏽💔🍉💯

Thank you for recommending Palestinian artists! So many interesting musicians to listen to. Like you said, art is important for giving people strength in the moment as well as documenting it for the future.

Heard in a documentary that people who take their coffee black have psychopath tendencies and while sleeping at 3am is deemed to be the devil’s hour.

loved getting to see the world through your eyes. the love you hold for your home irradiates through the screen. 💕

I think "It's not an act of love if you make her" is a super important line to touch on. It can reference her acts of service, no longer being done out of love but out of survival. And it can also reference the "act" of "love making". Essentially saying it's now SA if you make her perform this act for your own pleasure and disregarding her feelings about it.

I must’ve watched 20+ different versions of Olivia’s Dive on UA-cam by now. I’m glad the algorithm has brought me to your channel - instant subscribe 😊

purrrfect outfit😸💖

I'm really digging the black & white. Earth Wind and Fire was the background music to my life💯!!!

The pops of red really elevate this, so cute!

The cat really pulls everything together lol ❤

Love the cat addition truly elevated the outfit

Beautiful!!🤍

Do a deeper dive Earth, Wind and Fire!!! They are an epic band. Also, if you like Hozier check out We Cut Corners.

I’m 39, married at 18 (I was raised Mormon. Getting married young was normal). Please younger women, don’t get married. Have a committed partner if you like but don’t get married. Something about the titles, the legal document, this history of marriage and ownership - men take it all for granted in marriage. Don’t sacrifice your autonomy and freedom for anyone please. Please 🙏

What I love about this (and so many of his songs), is that even though it's about a romantic relationship, it can apply to so many different types of relationships. This song kills me because it reminds me of my relationship with my parents. It breaks my heart every time. "I'm good on my own, it's more the being unknown." I still carry goodness for them, but they will never truly know me because they hate who I ended up being. It sucks. It's so hurtful. This song is gut-wrenching in the best way.

this is so lovely! it just popped up randomly on my recommended page after a long stressful day. one of my favorite things about the internet is that it can allow us little glimpses into other people's worlds and lives, so thank you for letting us see your hometown! loved the editing! <33

beautiful!! did you take these on color film or did you use a digital effect? either way it looks so nice

Beautiful home movies!! Thanks for sharing💖

I always took it as how hard it is to finally show yourself to someone and think they truly know you. And then when they leave, you’re unknown. That intimacy, those places in yourself you rarely give access to, the person who knew is gone. “And there are some people love who are better unknown.” I originally always understood it as maybe it would have been better to have never known them to spare yourself the pain. But then recently I started to hear it is as him wishing she never knew HIM. Like he could have stayed in his quiet secret day to day without letting anyone get close. OR-and this one hurts-he feels like HE wasn’t worth knowing.

Funny to hear your opinion on "Nobody." It's probably in my top five Hozier songs lol, that one and Shrike are definitely two of my favorite on the album.

This is my favorite album of all time. I just relistened to it yesterday actually lol

I feel the same way exactly about Through Me; I've told more than one person for sure that I think that's one of the best written verses I've ever heard

I'd like to share; The heart shaped box video steals images from the Wizard of Oz. Especially the scene where Dorothy overdoses on poppies (heroin). The FIELD OF DREAMS, Morpheus is the Greek god of dreams. And is brought back to life with snow (cocaine). Which was left out of the final cut. The Wizard of Oz is an allegory for the gold standard.. the yellow brick road. As depicted in the heart shaped box video; Kurt wears a "tin man" coat, scarecrow pants and the cross, good witch/bad witch and so on. Interestingly instead of trying to reach Emerald City, material wealth and success he ingenuously changes the story to be about reaching child birth, a baby. The video is visually saturated with a grungy feel. The lone crow and a young girls heart. Even more incredibly is how this all ties into the fact that the Dark Side of the Moon synchronizes with TWOZ. The pyramid cover depicted on our money and on from there.. When you get to the scene in 'The Dark Side Of The Oz' you can hear "one day closer to death" as Dorothy lay on the ground just as Kurt does in the HSB video. Truly fascinating! 'the softly spoken magic spell' we are all under I suppose.

This was very eloquently said and a lot of the comments are introspective and interesting 😊

She’s only 22? Wow

Thanks for this it’s been really interesting, what I do know is Church makes me feel exactly the same as Eat your young..deep guttural hard to explain but I felt it immediately .